I have been thinking hard in the last few days about allowance. How much should a sugarbaby ask for when the allowance talk is brought up? What should the amount depend on and how do you explain it?
First of all, I don’t want to get a smaller allowance just because a sugardad is too busy to spend enough time with me to justify the amount. If he thinks xxx amount of dollars is worth xxx amount of time, then he needs to find someone who is looking for that same xxx amount of time. It is not my fault that someone is too busy with work or travel. I’m available and my life goes on!
The formula I would use to calculate my monthly allowance is:
Monthly Allowance = Monthly Budget x 2
Let’s make it x 1.5 for the sake of being less greedy.
My Monthly Budget:
Rent (utilities included) $1,300
Car Insurance $180
A total of $2,080 per month that does not include clothing or miscellaneous unforeseen expenses.
$2,080 x 2 = $4,160
$2,080 x 1.5 = $3,120
The allowance I’d ask for would be a minimum of $3,000 per month.
Now that you have figured out your minimum it is time to place the allowance in terms of visits per month.
In my mind if a sugardaddy spends 4 days per month as fallows:
Several hours each day, maybe even with a sleep over. You have sex with him every day that he spends with you and treat him like he is the center of the universe…you should be able to ask for $4,000.
Of course with that amount do NOT expect shopping, extravagant dining, and gifts. If you get those, he’s being very generous :)
Where did I come up with this figure?! I know it’s a HUGE discount for guys who know about escorting, and most sugardads have dabbled in this game. As a GFE escort, I would charge $2,500 for a 12 hour session + shopping + dinner. You might ask, “Why don’t you just see regular clients if you can make $2,500?”
My answer is clear and simple - a girl cannot depend on a client. As an escort it’s much harder in developing trust with a client that sees XXX number of girls each month. With sugar relationship there is stability.
Now finally, you have the number and you know why you need it, when do you bring it up with your potential sugardad?
The sooner the better. If you don’t want to bring up the amount until you meet in person, at least ask what type of sugardaddy he is in your email exchange? Gift, travel, or allowance? Some of them will be honest, while others lie about the type of sugardaddy they are until you meet them.
Don’t be shy or feel uncomfortable in bringing up the financial side of the arrangement. Both of you know why you are looking. I bet he won’t feel uncomfortable if you start talking about sex, so make sure to talk about money.