Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Be My Baby and Sugardaddy - Update November 7, 2010

Today I watched “Dirty Dancing” for the very first time. I loved that movie!!! No surprise there, I enjoy all musical/dance films. I cannot decide which I like most, Chicago or Across the Universe.

The first track in the movie is called “Be My Baby” by the Ronettes. The song has been on my mind all night long LOL…So I downloaded the soundtrack and played the tune on repeat while I practiced my pole moves. You’d be amazed to know that this song actually works for a pole routine and looks pretty hot to if done with that swing and fast pace. I am so pumped up that I can’t get to bed haha…

Check out the song with lyrics below.

The night we met I knew I needed you so
And if I had the chance I'd never let you go
So won't you say you love me
I'll make you so proud of me
We'll make 'em turn their heads
Every place we go
So won't you please

Be my little baby
Say you'll be my darling
Be my baby now

I'll make you happy, baby
Just wait and see
For every kiss you give me
I'll give you three
Oh, since the day I saw you
I have been waiting for you
You know I will adore you
Till eternity so won't you please

Be my little baby
Say you'll be my darling
Be my baby now


Be my little baby
Say you'll be my darling
Be my baby now

Be my little baby
Ooh, ohh...

I heard from J today. He will be returning a week from today and we already started planning our visits. When he returns he wants to see me for 3 days, which I don’t mind. But this is what put me off, our text message exchange -

He texts: “At what point are you in your cycle, if you don’t mind my asking?”

I text : “According to my calculations ‘it’ should start on the 13th or 14th. I know that sucks :( ”

He texts: “Ok…That’s a downer…Let’s hope it’s a bit late…I’ll wish you a goodnight now.”

I text: “We can do other fun things *wink wink* Sweet dreams. Kiss”

I didn’t really expect a response, and he never said anything in return. I know it’s because there is really nothing I can do that is ‘fun’ for him. He doesn’t like blowjobs, and I don’t see him being keen on a handjob. Now I feel like it’s my fault?! :(

My period is going to start a day before or ‘the’ day of his return from the 2 week trip. And he’s only back for maybe 5 days and then he leaves again for a week or two. I don’t know what to do. The timing seems to be working against me. When he leaves, I’ll be good again…….gah!

I have a solution but in his case it won’t work. See, if we had sex in the shower, it wouldn’t be so messy but I don’t want to be stuck in the shower for over an hour! If he could cum within 10 minutes, it would be an alternative…

I don’t run into this issue with escorting clients because I just don’t work when I’m on the rag. But this is something I haven’t run into before…

Am I supposed to feel like shit?! Cuz I do :(


  1. The no go during the flow is a universal rule. Unless you are looking for a bloody good time then everyone knows that you either BJ, HJ or reschedule.

    He seems really up front with things...maybe you should mirror his behavior. Or, if he complains, give him God's 1-800 number and tell him to take it up with the designer.

    Don't feel like shit, go dance on the pole some more...it may not make you feel any better, but the idea of it turns me on...and it's all about me... right?!?

  2. I dont know why you feel bad. It's not like menstruating is a bad thing. Women need to drop this guilt trip, it's 2010!

    The guy is just being frank and sensible. OK, him not wanting to be intimate when you're bleeding may make you feel crap but let's face it, shove lady things like periods in a man's face and you cross that line from mystique into overfamiliarity (the shit he has with his wife). As the above comment said, follow his lead and just adopt the same feeling about the situation he does. Plus when you do eventually reunite, the time apart may heighten the sexual tension so there could be something great to look forward to by biding your time. :-)

    P.S. Do you have feelings for this man? Just the feeling guilty stuff makes me wonder....

  3. @ Eden and Kenny:

    Thank you both for the supportive comment ;)

    I don't feel bad or want to have sex with him on my period. It just that his text message was odd considering everything he wanted from our arrangement.

    I'm starting to get the idea more and more that all he cares about is the sex...not including the time we spend together. I just don't get it.

    In the beginning he wanted this to be 'special'...almost like an affair, but now it's more like client/SP. I don't like him playing around like this. It's better if he were just upfront with me. But now he's just changing.

    I did have feelings for him a month ago, but not any more :) When I started to see his true colours, all my feelings melted away. haha

  4. Ah, gotcha.

    Let me tell you a story: a key reason I dumped Savant (the guy I mention on my blog in a couple of posts in April) was because he badgered me to pleasure him during my period despite me telling him that at that time I was not in the mood. I would never have brought up my period but being made to showed me his true colours. I felt like I was purely there for sex (not to mention he became rude and tried to order me around too) so I dumped him.

    While it's good your SD is not badgering you, I still personally would not not develop feelings for a guy who gives the vibe that he just purely wants me for sex. In your case, if you can sustain things without the feelings there, then do it and importantly, have fun!!

  5. @ Eden:

    Yes, there are men out there that like to be controlling. Good for you girl not to take that shit from Savant!

    J doesn't seem pushy, he just likes to say stuff like "Well, maybe when you feel comfortable we can do...(insert unsafe practice)." So I can handle him.

    I definitely don't have feelings for him any more. Not when I found out I'm just a sex object. In a way, when I read other sugarbabes' posts, good sugardaddies actually care about their girl beyond just the sex. J just needs a good escort.


  6. You mentioned that with J it's sex for an hour or so. I used to be that way all the time whenever I met with a lady, for a couple reasons. I was holding off on purpose, because I wanted to make sure she had plenty of satisfaction first, since I'm usually a 1-shot guy. Also, I actually didn't know that it's usually ok with most girls to jump right into action, with just a little spit or other lube first. There were plenty of times I'd want to rip off our clothes as soon as the door closed, but instead I went through the routine of shower, lots of foreplay, and long sex sessions before I came, because that's what I thought made a good lover. So if you want a quickie in the shower, maybe all you have to do is ask for it, he might be secretly wishing for it too!

  7. Why dont you do the sponge trick? i never let my period get in the way of making money.